Hi. I am Dr. Tanja Isabella. If it is in your pleasure, I would love to introduce myself, honor you for being here, and share my expertise in the realms of Beauty, Pleasure, & Divine Feminine Power. I am an international coach serving men and women on 5 continents. I am so confident in my abilities and passionate about you having the life you desire that if you don’t make positive changes after our coaching sessions I will pay for your next coaching sessions of equal value.
I would also love to share some of the struggles I have overcome and why I desire to serve you.
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As a young girl I was also a constant over achiever. I was the straight A, perfect attendance, student of the year type. I wanted to accomplish a great deal so I could leave home and have a better life. I also wanted to overachieve since I thought that this was the only way that I was worthy of being loved or respected. I often believed that I would be worthy of love only when I was perfect enough.
As a young girl I would hear things like if I was too smart then no man would love me. When I felt beautiful and I would wear feminine clothes I was often told that I wasn’t pretty enough since I wasn’t petite and that my butt was too big. I was also taught subconsciously taught that it was bad to wear bright make-up of to be a sensual woman. After such criticisms I became a tomboy who played competitive sports since I thought it would make me feel safer, and more successful. I was subconsciously taught that women are not as strong or as valuable as men. I believed that if I became more masculine, more accomplished, and if I worked harder then I would be valued.
From that point on I constantly only focused on my achievements. My career, academics, working hard, and achieving more was my constant focus. I graduated with multiple Masters degrees with several scientific publications in a time span of 5 years. I then graduated from Eastern Virginia Medical School and soon after graduation I started practicing medicine in the field of Dermatology. I have practiced both Medical and Cosmetic Dermatology and while practicing I often would see a trend in my female patients. There were mainly two types of female patients that I would take care of and that I would constantly recognize myself in. They were either women that would either be great at giving and taking care of everything and everyone else before they would ever think of caring for themselves or they were beautiful accomplished women who wanted to be more perfect. Often I would look at these women in awe since they were so beautiful and these women would only see flaws and imperfections instead of honoring both their true beauty and their true value. These women were afraid if they were not perfect enough then they would not be loved or have joy in their lives.
In my career I have had many patients that were suffering from burn out and exhaustion and they felt if they could just physically be prettier then their life would be better. They believed that by either being more perfect, working harder, or that being more sacrificial were the only avenues that would potentially give them more love, more joy, or more success in their lives. I then realized this pattern was not just in myself and several patients but it was also in several of my friends and in many women collegues. I slowly began to see the importance of standing for my unique beauty and the importance of pleasure since I saw where I would end up if I did not find both my inner queen and quaintrelle. I knew I needed to be healed and that I needed to become a woman who valued my own unique beauty and my sacred pleasure. I needed my vitality. I desired more love and passion. I wanted a colorful life filled with romance, delight, creativity, joy, and adventure. I wanted to be a woman who was surrounded by beauty, pleasure, and art. I wanted to be a woman who lived out loud and who was fully expressed in this world. I wanted to be the Quaintrelle and the Queen. I knew I was strong and I had a good career but I wanted so much more for myself. I desired a life that I could delight in.
I knew that I needed to not just be the woman who was so focused on producing and achieving and who was only focused on her career. I knew I was exhausted and I was becoming resentful since I was the woman that was so great at giving but not great a receiving. I realized the pattern needed to be broken since there were so many repressed, angry, sick, and exhausted women in the world. I knew that I had witnessed several women who had the career they desired but their relationships were just surviving but not thriving. I saw many professional woman who were exhausted and burnt out. I also encountered many professional women who wanted to get married or have families and they felt like time was running out. I saw so many women who were afraid to stand in their beauty, speak their truth, be sensual, or see pleasure as their birth right since they were afraid they would be rejected, seen as selfish, or that they would not be taken seriously.
I then read a quote By Coco Chanel and that "beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself".
I knew I needed to honor my unique beauty by honoring all aspects of myself. I then began to study joy and pleasure. I spent years and hundreds of hours studying, love, pleasure, sensuality, and sexuality. I knew I wanted to be more balanced and heal my psyche and the Divine femine in myself since I had suppressed her for so long. I began to study Divinity and the sacredness of women. I learned that the feminine psyche was just like an incision that I cut on my patients skin. I learned that as women we are intuitively designed to heal, especially with the right environment, the right medicine, the right mindset, and the right tools. I soon desired to not only heal the physical body but to also heal the feminine soul and the feminine psyche! Once this passion was ignited… I then went on to obtain my PhD with a Doctorate of Divinity and Spiritual Philosophy with an Emphasis on the Divine Feminine. I began to study Mary Magdalene and how she was an iconic woman who was not afraid to stand in her passion, her purpose, and her beliefs. I studied the divine feminine in both Christianity and other world religions. I also studied sacred sexuality since I wanted to heal that aspect of myself and I went on to study with some of the worlds leading sex, love, and relationship experts. I am so passionate about this topic that I am currently receiving a professional coaching certification by the world renowned Layla Martin and I am currently in the process of obtaining a 600 hour sex, love, and relationship professional certification.
I later forgave my parents and I realize that a lot of my teachings from my parents were done in love since they both had dysfunctional childhoods and abandonment issues. I learned that my mother was also repeatedly raped by the age of five and so was my great-grandmother. You see my mother is German and she grew up in a country that had previously been war torn. Her subconscious programming was that if women were visible and beautiful then they would be either raped or harmed. In her own way she was protecting me. My father also had a father who abandoned him when he was an infant and his brother was a toddler. I now realize that my father had abandonment issues and he deeply feared that if I was too successful that I too would abandon him.
The great news is that we very much love and support each other now and through much healing, support, and unconditional love I now adore my parents and they adore me. We now have a very supportive, and loving relationship and they now celebrate my success. My parents even celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary recently and my mother asked me to adorn her with flowers in her hair, and to make her look beautiful by doing her makeup and helping her pick out a dress. This was a hugh example of healing for my mother. Once my mother witnessed my safety in being visible she also truly desired to be visible as well. The beautiful thing is once we release and heal ourselves we only then give others permission to do the same.
I have learned how to go from a feeling of unworthiness (unless I was producing) to being a divine receiver. I have learned to shine my authentic self brightly. I became luminescent when I was no longer fearful of shining my own authentic and unique light. The truth is the more I wasn’t fragmented by hiding the sexual, joyful, pleasurable, sensual, playful, or powerful aspects of myself the more I became whole. As I became whole I became happier and wealthier. I also learned that my self worth was directly related to my abundance and that beauty and pleasure is a wealth mentality.
I have created Majestic Beauty because I now realize that I have always been powerful and in my own right I have been a queen of my own destiny. I also realize that a queen is powerful but she can also be burdened by duty, obligation, tough choices, and over responsibility. I adore being a queen but I also adore balancing it in the world of the quaintrelle. A quaintrelle is a Victorian word that means a woman who emphasizes a life of passion, expressed through personal style, leisurely pastimes, charm, and the cultivation of life’s pleasures. I have learned that once I embraced both the queen and the quaintrelle in me equally was the moment when I healed all aspects of my life. In that moment God and the universe gave me more gifts of abundance and divine experiences and my life is better then I could ever have imagined in my wildest dreams.